Whether
you just found out you’re pregnant or you’ve known for a few months, announcing
your pregnancy to family and friends can be a lot of fun. Some may want to wait
until a certain time during their pregnancy, while others want to call everyone
immediately after finding out themselves.
Telling The Father
Have
a romantic dinner for two with candle lights, it may be your last time for a
while, between morning sickness and raising your little one. Serve up baby
carrots, baby back ribs and anything else you can think as baby. At the end,
pour apple juice instead of wine and hand him a present. Inside you can have a
tiny baby bib that says, “I heart My Daddy”
or a pair of baby booties.
If
you can’t tell the father right away because he’s away on business, or deployed
try sending him a care package. Inside the box place a few baby items,
everything in blue and pink and a baby naming book in the center. Place a note
on top of the book with, “I need a name soon, I’ll be here by June.” Or
whenever the baby is due.
You
can also see how long it takes him to figure it out. Go to the dollar store and
pick up a bunch of small baby items, a bib, rattle, bottle, booties, etc. For a
week, leave an item laying around the house where he is bound to find them. At
the end of the week if he hasn’t figured it out yet, prepare the big gift. Have
a large teddy bear sitting at the dinner table in the seat beside him, make
sure there is a bib wrapped around him and maybe a sign that says Hi Daddy.
Telling Family and
Friends
Show
up to a family gathering wearing a shirt that announces your state. These days
there are a ton of shirts out there with clever sayings, “Baby on Board,” “A
Bun in the Oven,” or something related to the pregnancy. The moment you walk in
or take off your jacket everyone will figure it out without you ever having to
say a word. Now, get ready for the tears and excitement. You’ll be answering a
ton of questions.
If
you already have children you may want to call the grandparents up and tell
them that the next Christmas they may want to add one more to the list.
If
this is the first grandchild, you may want to get a bracelet link for your mom
that reads, “#1 Grandma” or grandparent t-shirts. This will not only be a great
present for them but something they will cherish and love forever.
No
matter when you spread the news it can be a lot of fun, just think creative and
let the pieces fall. You may even want to try catching all of it on video, so
think ahead and prepare for the BIG moment, and I’m not meaning the birth.
2 comments:
Being pregnant is just like a blessing. You must take very good care of yourself as well as of child. This article really made me teary-eyed. I loved reading it.
Regards,
Kunik Goel
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